Coming Out at Work
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First, Consider This
"Don't come out at work, with family or anytime until you are personally ready. It's not something you can take back. Sharing anything that revealing makes you susceptible to negative reactions -- be prepared for it." - Risher
Reactions from coworkers or bosses can range from support and encouragement to shock and disapproval. Consider your personal safety. If you are in an extremely homophobic, hostile environment, finding a new job may make more sense than coming out in your current one.
It's worth making a list of everyone in your workplace who has an effect on your job. Think about how each person might react upon learning of your sexual orientation. How important to your career are those who might react negatively? Is it realistic to think your job could be jeopardized, or is this fear more imagined? Taking an analytical approach to this process can help you get a clearer picture of what to anticipate.
Does your company has a written policy regarding discrimination based on sexual orientation. If other employees have come out, connect with them to gain a valuable support network.
